Its so sad that the divorce is still the central focus. Ya but I raised both of those boys more than she has the youngest has lived with me more than her and the previous weekend she sent him home right after he got there he threw up on her. No they will do nothing but make you spend more money as to what we are about to do again spend more money! I am separating with my wife. In includes discussion of the best interest of the child standard and other factors such as parental conduct the Court considers in making a custody determination. venue in cases of custodial interference by relatives For the 1st time since I was 15 I was sober and functioning! Thank you for any kind words of guidance! I had a heart and supported the mother thru her Cps case at birth and even when she messed up again this time I told her to go get help and instead she would sit at her mothers calling in crap I went thru two years of back to back hate calls and investigations I believe five or six of them none paned out and never was I doing drugs for the sake of my daughter then a different County help her by place a different guys case loads on me I still sent my daughter funds. That is, if there is not any reason for her to stop allowing visitation and if there was, she should have filed the emergency hearing. I was seeking sole custody, but kid has become extremely difficult and violent.I refuse to just give up on him, he refuses to go back to weekend visits, but at this time I think perhaps he should go back and we should stick to the original visitation scheduleyes, I do think this might wake my son up, but I have tried everything else. Of course he is threatening with court and we are in the process of filing an emergency motion. This summer Ive had them all almost all summer and their dad got them and was going to have them two weeks with after five days he sends me a message saying that he had no where for them to go and his bank account was drained and needed to bring them back. He lives in the town where the divorce was finalized. Omg I can hug you right now chy ?????? I have physical custody today is the day he comes home and his mother agreed to let him come home early because she was working (we made the plans on Thursday). File custody in FL. Custodial interference occurs when the non-custodial parent makes repeated attempts to obstruct the custodial parent's usual custody rights. If the parents aren't married, the father must first establishpaternitybefore seeking custody of his child. Shouldnt he send him back? The girls, fearing for their safety, left the concert and went to a mini mart some 2 miles away (it was the nearest and most familiar business they trusted). Again, a holiday weekend, so, she is in line right now, waiting for the court building to open & see what can be done. Youll have to fight for custody. There is a lot more to this, but it gets too involved. What state are you in? We ended up canceling the divorce and the OP because he wants me back, and I dont have the money to pay an attorney. Finally the best solution to all of this non-sense is to issue marriage licenses that have an expiration date. My daughter suffered 23 years of severe mental abuse Shes only 2. 2018, Chapter 12. My daughter receives no help raising this little girl and she does it all on her own with no State benefits either. I have all the evidence its right out in the open plain as day but the courts are blind and combined as a whole. He only has temporary full custody because he filed first and he allowed the mom to have her. can my mom get into trouble? If the parents aren't married, the father must first . I was on chemo therapy and I showed at every court date. If we didnt have justifiable reason to ask for full custody, we wouldnt be. And he seems to think that he is going to end up getting our son every other week from Sunday- Saturday. Sorry I just made your life SUCK but know you did an excellent job as you are the runner up and loose everything to her. Demand your ex husband have EQUAL rights to BOTH your children. Learn how to file for child custody or parenting time, what forms you'll need, and where to file. MY parental rights are still fully intact and According to the current parenting plan and custody order The noncustodial parent does have a say in those areas, and the court can enfore those things. I now have some mental understanding problems from the anurisim caused by the rat poisioning, i am in poir health now and the kidnappung court wants to adopt my child to foster parents. What are my legal rights, what control over those rights does a 14 year old have? If you are calling and disrupting their time together to control or make them miserable or uncomfortable that can be considered obstruction or parental alienation especially if it is execesive. i seriously doubt any prosecutor would waste their time bringing charges. Here is my question To the point, my soon to be ex is seeing a convicted sex offender here in Texas. They are in Pennsylvania and I reside in South Carolina. %. I hope this helps. I have shared, joint legal custody with supervised visitation and she (my wife) has primary, physical custody. No one cares what you think. I would ask the court for an immediate change of custody based upon the best interest factors of the custody laws of your state, which you should be able to find online. FATHERS ARE NOT JUST DOLLAR SIGNS AND SPERM! The courts always go on the side of the women. When I pick up my husbands daughter her mom insist on getting in my car to buckle her u . She has known our location throughout this time and has made no attempt to see my step son, didnt even come to his birthday party in November. When I had my check book and could have written a check for the 620.00. The court may give you more time if it finds that mother is not cooperating and is alienating you from your son. But now he moved 2yrs ago to Orange county . A commentator has suggested that the "takes or entices" branch of 26A may be applied even to a parent with legal custody or joint legal custody who interferes with the visitation or joint custody rights of the other parent. Contemp papers were filed, he was held in contempt and so was his wife. I have told him I do not want nothing to do with him because it is his mental BS that is nothing to be desired, he refuses to get mental help, loose the worthless people in his life, move back and be in all of his kids lives. WHITE.. Abselutely NOT is it illigal for you to pick your children up from school, especially because he has refused to comply with the order that is certified in the state he lives in! Since we live in 2 different states, custody and visitation was not in our divorce decree because the state Im in has jurisdiction over the children and our divorce was filed in the state he lives in. This was not a case of having improper activitys with a child.What would be our chances? One weekend David took our son to Orlando for the weekend, on Personally, sit tight, I know as women when were hurt and scared we want to run to something familiar. After I told the judge why I did it, he let me keep them and told me to get a lawyer so we can make modifications. As of yesterday I was informed that I had a court date this morning in front of a judge in Chicago to eliminate my visition with my kids. What have we done wrong? He intends to fight me for custody of my son, and is interfering with my rights to custody. These kids love their moms and dads so its not a contest. Any advice on how to file a motion for my time sharing to be reinstated? WHAT~!?? Im seeing and dealing with this situation as we speak. Anyways, he hasnt even tried to do his visitation since I refused, which was on June 17thnot even his supervised visitsThat is why I am hereto try to get some ideas what I can do as far as him not excercising his visitation I know you cant make a mother/father visit, but four months now since the last contact with himthere has to be something I can do.. If one cant afford the child support owed, better get another job, it was your decision to have a baby, and brought the child into the world, children dont ask to be brought into this world. when I was your age friends brought me down Said my sons dad. Also, a custodial parent who speaks poorly of a non-custodial parent and who convinces a child that spending time with the other parent is unwise may engage in parenting time interference or the serious problem of parental alienation syndrome. You can go to family court if this happens again and file a temp restraining orderbest wishes.. Separated for 4 months, the father has has nothing to do with my daughter for the past 4 years and now that we are separated he is now wanting to spend time with her. Simple solution. Her daughter and her daughters 4-year old twins have lived with her off and on for the last 4 years. In other words, you would be telling the court that is something you would not do. I am the custodial parent and the non custodial parent does not pick him up or bring him back on time. You might help her win custody by doing that. When he came home he started crying telling me that the NCP roped him around the neck and legs. Best of luck to every one and keep on keeping on. The non-custodial parent is not entitled to keep the child beyond their court ordered visitation period without obtaining an order from the court modifying his or her visitation. My daughters husband is upset because her friend happens to be another man. All I know is that this horrible ordeal is a great injustice not only to O. Sr., but also to O. Jr., who has a right to know his father. Despite many attempts, The ex refuses to discuss the matter. When my ex left the state of Florida 2 yars ago the juge aknowledged she broke the law. The mistakes parents make is that they start thinking about how to WIN THEIR WAY thats the approach that will harm you and your child. I cant let this go on and I have been passive enough. Especially when not telling the other parent where your going will be strait up , you will do so gail time for that as its kidnapping. If there wasnt one and shes filed now for custody, is there a temporary consent order? the baby is 19 months old. 2. Other than that a father can raise a child in the exact same manner as a mother can, if not better. My ex husband lives in another state the I do with my kids. I really want this guy to receive reprimands for what he did to me. No! That extra week was going to do no harm ( so i thought). I def need any feedback available!! YOU DO NOT FORCE ONE PARENT TO TAKE THE CHILDREN FROM THE OTHER! She cant do that if you have an Order It has to be followed or you have to agree/negotiate another arrangement. The police are useless, the FBI said they dont handle parental kidnapping,(even with the youngest not be his, it would be kidnapping) I owe my attorney, who is withdraw last year, so I have no attorney, nor can I afford one Did I mention he hardly pays child support and owes me $16,000???? Doesnt show? I think it was rediculous to make a 3 year old wait almost 4 weeks for a hearing. They are supervised because of the assault!!! Statute 5421-5430 I am at my wits end here. What is my best course of action? She has no job no car and lives in and out of shelters. Parenting Classes state that 60% of the fathers go away within the first two years; 75% of bankruptcies are filed within 2 years of a divorce/custody battle. This is the 3 time in 14 months that I have filed a police report. Visitiation ended on July 27th and I have still not gotten my daughter back. He literally got mad at me in real life because he had a dream I killed him. I feel I am policed and constantly tries to find info on me to take to court. Criminal action is just that where it has no bearing on family law unless it endangers the well being of a child (murder, sexual or physical abuse, robbery or drug possession or child abandonment). Go to the police in your area, file custodial interfrence against her an investigator she pursue it further. Custodial interference is a crime in many instances, and taking a child or keeping a child longer than allowed from the custodial parent can constitute kidnapping. That side is the children. and said you done it so she could go on vacation and bible school on the weeks you choose. so my husband is in jail now for interference with child custody were in TX. lolNOnot without both parents consent could the grandmother have any rights to the child. Make sure you obtain copies of the reports from both departments. They cannot refuse you those records ESPECIALLY if you show them the black and white proof! So the mothers mental state isnt most likely capable of raising her. They say its a civil matter. We have joint custody but he has primary custodianship. yes if the individual is entitled to custody and is old enough to have a preference. high and not only did I ever believe he was molesting our son, but I dont We had discussed him living with him and I was not comfortable with our kids being there with him living there. I was supposed to finish my anger management in 2008 but was unable to and now I am four classes away from completion. Sometimes aunts can be the hidden predators in our childrens lives. MY grandaughter has changed to be after 2 days with her mother. the state of Colorado where my child is and the state where is starts. Plus last night i call my ex to speak with my children and my children tell me that there inside the car as were speaking by themselves and my ex is in the store. My boyfriend took my daughter for his summer visititation. What a concept.! In the past 2 years he has lost all but a few of his teeth so we are positive he us back on it. I see my child only when she allows me. And though her son and I have been separated for 5 If you are have you told a counselor or teacher or someone about what is going on and has it been witnessed by someone else other than your mom? I have since filed paperwork to establish a custody/visitation motion in Maricopa County, AZ. My soon-to-be ex has been the primary cusotodial parent of our 1 and 3 y/o sons. i have 5o 5o custody or time sharing, court ordered. It will more than likey be a waste of any money you have to hire an attorney so I would suggest going to your local superior court and requesting a Pro Se Divorce Packet, that should contain step by step instruction on how to file contempt for him refusing your visitation ( if there is an order ) and then other things such as Exparte petitions for emergency situations . 301 Yamato Rd #4110, Boca Raton, FL 33431, United States. She was happy and cared for. He has not seen the kids since July 08. He also has encouraged the girls to say contemptuous things against their mother. You could be showing yourself to be seeking reasons to prevent his custody and you could lose custody for this and thus child support if you continue. They told me that because my daughter was about to turn 18 in a few months back then, had I ordered her home it would have caused more trouble. If you can prove you are indigent you will qualify for them helping you to fill out the proper forms and give you advise to file and appear in court. He is refusing stating I must continue to meet at the set location, drivnig the additional 2 and 1/2 hours on my own and I still must come two weekends a month, Do you think a judge will see my situation? my kids live with me in florida but their dad has visitation rights during the summer in florida (where he lives). These flights are scheduled as: Xmas, Spring Break, and Summer. I worked with the new wife and she told me stories about the children and what a terrible mother the ex-wife was. The Order can be modified when both parties agree you both agreed on changing the Order and have followed those changes for quite some time and established precedence if you call police or say kidnapping that would be UNWISE. Ask her how she feels, how she is doing, what she wants, what you can do to help her if shes having a hard time. We are here to make it easy for anyone to share experiences or ask questions about family law related issues. This will be a difficult and uphill battle. Dont be afraid to ask for help as those at the clerks office can answer some general questions. S. Calhan, co.80808 on/or before 8-24-2008 I went to court 3 month after to get custody of her. Legal fees vary depending upon the exact nature of your situation and where you are in the divorce process. How do you know he went somewhere without the supervisor/father? the childs best interests is the primary consideration a court will give. Yet a child being a mothers possession or property because she primarily takes care of him/her in their daily needs and does so alone while the father works, is not only the acceptable norm, but something that needs to be commended and applauded, with everyone saying, there goes one strong woman! ? You should all lose custody. You tell her its all right, hell calm down. So I am fighting for the same injustice as those fathers you talk about and mothers. This is the first time to do so and so he only stayed 4 nights. Today, she has been trying to call and speak to my grandson, ask him about his day at school, check on him, tell him she loves him, and the grandparents wont answer the phone. What is the reason she doesnt want to talk to you? (Phone book or court referral is a start on learning about how this works. methinks thee protesteth too much One time we ran out of court after her just so he could tell her he loves her and she acted like he was a monster. Time and time again he has asked her to let him call me or let me call him and yet she refuses every time. We recently found them back in March in South Dakota. Both parents must realize the interests of the child needs to come first. If you are over the age of 18 and did not press charges yourself you are okay to do so as the order which is enforceable pertains to minors unless otherwise stated (handicap or judges discretion). If only all thought that way. The extent of legal measures is dependent on how disruptive they were . Yet we fear that when we go to court in 2 weeks, the court will side with her because she is the mother. Just talk about it and it may turn on you. She is not responding to our requests. She had him picked up on the CS warrant the day after Thanksgiving. I am sick of this woman interferring in my home. It will take some time to fill out al lthe paperwork and get the judge to sign it. ", E.K. State of TX- Texas has similar laws, but additional stipulations. Ok so I have court in April with the father of my first daughter. She says that we are under a misapprehension if (we) think the court expects parents to force their teenagers into unwanted visitation. But everything I have found, says exactly the opposite. thank you. Well my daughter is due to go back to him tomorrow and were all terified he told her he would hurt her if she told!! Child kidnapping? Make your first message that the police are coming for her for interference with custody and this is her last warning or you will go to the full extent of the law. Even if i just have Visitations with my son. HELP!! Her plan is to pack up with the kids and just leave one day when he is at work and not tell him anything. Still other states will not apply the interference charge if the child is sixteen years of age or older and there are yet other states that will not file charges if the child is returned before the arrest warrant is issued. Now I dont want to depress you, but you may have a harder time getting them back as what you have described she may become vindictive to keep you from them. Good luck and I hope all 3 of you get better with your acid reflex and peace in your family. (1) A person is guilty of custodial interference when, knowing that he has no legal right to do so, he takes, entices or keeps from lawful custody any mentally disabled or other person entrusted by authority of law to the custody of another person or to an institution. They agreed that they would trade semesters (the father WAS in college and was home every other semester) and right now the father has my grandson during the week and my daughter on weekends, and previous semester she had him during the week and the father on weekends, etc, etc. I have recently foud out that while these referrals are placed in my daughters permanent educatinal file, Famil Court will not even entertain looking into this matter until my daughter is 12 years of age, then they can hold her accountable. They are located in many states and found in both states you are talking. I havent heard from his mother in 3 years. My new wife and I just went on our one year anniversary trip. If she becomes a resident of another state (which is 6 months in the other state) you will be on the losing end and just get non custodial visitation. You have an attorney and you know all the answers, so why are you on here spewing about him when he was good enough to be the father when you were together and now hes not? Think about how you would use the courts and make sure you have documentation. What state is the Court Order filed in? Every Saturday, they each drive an hour and meet at a neutral location to arrange a pickup/drop off. I am the legal and residencial custodian of my 3yrs old daughter, her dad has been giving parent right, she has to sleep over his house every other weekend,and also see her every wednesday, My question is, does this mean he has shared parenting with me, and also do i need child services to inspect his home, to ensure my proper accomondation for the child? I get my kids every summer and every other Christmas. I had to contact a criminal law lawyer. The state is involved as well. 2 which have been counties away. referee granted her custody she didnt do a visitation order because she EXCEPT IN MACON GEORGIA THEY THINK ITS STILL 1973. Good luck and I hope to hear good news about things for your kids and even that she do the right thing for their behalf. You should request that the court issue an order that either provides that father has no visitation or has supervised visitation. Thanks, Hi I ma william , i have a 4 year son , i have the joint custody , and i have the physical custody of my son , i now i normally get him every weekens stating on fridays friday- sunday, now the mother of my child wouldnt let me see him , what can i do. Custodial interference is where there is a violation of the custody rights granted by the court. They never wanted to leave in the first place and would rather live with me. My guys right to have a relationship with his child is really being violated, at least that is my opinion. 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